Yes I have got it working
Create a gprs caleld whatever you like connection using the settings
Connects to: The Internet
Access Point: internet
Leave the rest rest blank
then create another gprs connection called MMS
Connects to: secure wap network
Access Point: wap.vodafone.co.uk
Leave the rest blank.
Then oopen the mms program and choose menu/options/account options/mms then select menu and then mmsc settings
Make a new connection called whatever you like or edit the one that is there
MMSC URL: http://mms.vodafone.co.uk/servlets/mms
Wap Gateway: 22.214.171.124
Connect Via: Secure Wap Network
Then change wap version to 1.2. ***My phone would not send at all until I did this and then bingo, I had tried all sorts but realised on my old Imate SP5 that it was set to this and sure enough it worked. Not sure what is wrong with this apart from 100k limit on picture sizes. I would like to change this so if anyone can tell me how then please post it on here.***
This is all I did and both my internet and my MMS now work fine. The only thing I have missed out is the swearing of which there was a lot!