Reset before headphones work?

[Guest dsilver.us]

Been having to soft reset my BJII to get my wired headphones to work--no headphone sound when I first plug them in, the sound just comes out of the phone's speaker. Had this problem a while back before I reflashed to 6.1, but then the problem somehow sorted itself out. Now with 6.1 it happens all the time. I switch off sometimes to my bluetooth headphones, wonder if this has anything to do with the phone not recognizing the headphone jack? Any ideas?